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HUDSON COUNTY DIVORCE LAWYER: 5 REASONS YOU SHOULD HAVE A PARENTING SCHEDULE THROUGH THE FAMILY COURT

One of the biggest issues in family court-divorce court in New Jersey is: parenting time and child custody. As a family law attorney in Jersey City-Hudson County, I have represented 100s if not 1000s of people in family law-parenting time concerns in the Hudson County Family Court which is located at 595 Newark Avenue, Jersey City, NJ. This article is intended to provide common sense tips in child custody/parenting time cases in New Jersey. I use my experience as an attorney and my life experience as a father to offer these tips from a different vantage point. Some points may be overstated or repeated in various articles I have written but it is because these tips are the same tips that work and help people over and over again. Each case is different but if the parents truly care for their children, which is always my hope, we can come to a parenting schedule that promotes parenting time for both parents. This is key for the well-being of the children. However, in cases were one parent is “toxic” or is trying to ruin the relationship between one parent and child, a stricter schedule and therapy may be needed, we can help you. Below are just five reasons why you should have a set parenting schedule:

  1. You and the children will benefit from a structured schedule. They will know where to be, what to expect, look forward to that time and so on. Less confusion, less problems.
  2. The set schedule will become a routine and the children will begin to have routines at the alternate residence to do homework, school projects, activities, etc.
  3. It gives you a set time for yourself which is needed between work, caring for the kids and all other things that you may need a rest from.
  4. The more detailed the plan, the lesser chance you will have fights and return to court. Make it as black and white as possible.
  5. With a set schedule, it gives your ex less of a chance to try to control you through the children and will limit unnecessary communication.

When the relationship is tense, in a divorce, leads to arguments, it is best to just have the rules set in a parenting schedule so a limit on needless communication is in effect and will only help you. If you have a family law case, domestic abuse/restraining order case, divorce in Hudson County, I suggest you give my office a call to discuss these matters further. We can be reached in our Jersey City office on: 973-337-9643.

WHAT YOU REALLY WANT TO KNOW ABOUT DIVORCE IN NEW JERSEY IN 7 QUESTIONS-7

Einstein’s favorite color was green and his favorite number 7 so let’s stick with 7 very important questions that people should ask or do ask divorce lawyers when meeting with them to determine what to do at this point in their lives and I mean past the point of family meetings, interventions, marriage counseling, etc., the point where one party has left or one party needs to go for the sanity of the home, the kids, etc. Never easy, but sometimes it is what must be done. Remember, leaving the house never means losing your stake in the home itself so leave that issue alone for now. Lets focus on what you can do, should do and never do when you get to this point.

  1. My parents passed away, should I deposit that into our joint account since that is all we have? NO, NO, NO. Open your own account and place those funds there. Those funds are yours and not marital, keep those funds apart. You are allowed to open you own account an anytime during the marriage, during separation, etc. It is not against the law nor will you be punished for that.
  2. I hate my spouse because he cheated on me, I do not want him to see the kids, Can I do that? Think about this. Forget what you did or did not do, what your spouse did or did not do. Your kids do not deserve to be alienated from their father or mother because of your bitterness. Grow Up. Your kids will hate you in the end when the truth is revealed and if it is never revealed, the guilt of your purposeful alienation will haunt you when you kids struggle with adult relationships.
  3. I want to live in the house, can’t I just call the police to get my spouse out? Yes you can temporarily if they believe you are in fear but if you lose the restraining order, your spouse will be allowed back in and if you are found not to be credible, it will come up in the divorce case. Not good.
  4. My friends tell me I can get more money or that I don’t have to let my spouse see the kids, is this true? Your friends are your worst enemies in terms of legal advice. They do not know anything except what may have happened to them in their case. They do not know everything in your case no matter how you try to explain it. Focus on your case and listen to your divorce attorney.
  5. I want sole custody so I can make all decisions for our children, is that easy? No it is not. New Jersey favors joint custody unless you can show concerns, a lack or interest, a lack of communication, etc. However, it is important to remember that the primary or residential parent has many powers whether it is sole or joint custody in New Jersey.
  6. Does a Judge have to decide our issues? No. You can make a deal/settlement through mediation or arbitration. You can also agree together and it will be made in writing, The Judge only decides at the last resort and the court tries to help resolve your case along the way with the help of skilled divorce lawyers and deadlines.
  7. If we do not agree, how long will a divorce take? It can take 6 months to over one year depending on the issues involved. The more you can agree on (if anything) the faster the case can move.

These are just 7 questions that people have during divorce/family law consults in my firm. If you have a potential case, contact my team on 201-706-7910 to setup an appointment in our Jersey City location.

5 WAYS TO ACHIEVE THE SEAMLESS DIVORCE IN NEW JERSEY NJ

From Jersey City Divorce and Family Law Attorney Santo Artusa——-Einstein taught me how to achieve the seamless/no fault/uncontested divorce in New Jersey Family-Divorce Courts. And as you would suspect, genius lives in simplicity. As a Hudson County divorce lawyer representing people from Jersey City, North Bergen, Bayonne, Union City, Hoboken, Newark, Kearny, North Arlington, Elizabeth, Union, New Brunswick, Somerset and beyond, I know which courts offer the easiest divorces and which courts are slower and have more archaic methods. For instance did you know that certain New Jersey Family Courts do not require an appearance in court if you know what you are doing? Hudson and Somerset are just two counties that permit divorce on the papers (aka a divorce without going to court). We handle hundreds of these divorce cases each year, especially in Hudson County, New Jersey. Our satisfied clients have sent us countless referrals because of our work and knowledge of the Hudson County divorce courts and judges.

The first step in a divorce is really telling your spouse that you are going to file (this is much easier in cases where both parties already want this, the parties no longer live together as husband and wife, spouse and spouse). By doing this, there is no surprise which could lead to a major civil paper-divorce assault for no reason, so it is best to deal with it with kid’s gloves if it is an amicable divorce and mutual decision.

The second step would be either getting the terms of the divorce agreement down in writing or filing for the divorce in the New Jersey Superior Court-Family Part (Each County has one). One you file for the divorce, you will get a docket or case number. Your spouse will then need to sign for that or sign that he or she agrees to the terms listed in the divorce complaint or you have a marital/property settlement agreement.

The third step would be to file that paper which must be signed and notarized (acknowledgment of service) with the court. After that is done, you can file for a default and submit the next series of documents and the actual proposed final divorce judgment. Again, if you do it right in certain counties, you will never have to go to court and appear in a family law courtroom. My team and I know how to obtain that divorce or annulment for you in a seamless and limited stress fashion (we cannot control everything but we strive to make this as easy as possible for you and your spouse).

If you face a family law issue, domestic abuse, restraining orders, child custody, divorce, annulments or any other family law issue in Hudson County, New Jersey or beyond, contact my team on 201-706-7910 to discuss your situation further. Until then, thank you and Have a safe 4th of July! God Bless America!

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SOMERSET FAMILY COURT LAWYER AND SOMERSET COUNTY JUDGES

LEGAL PROBLEM IN SOMERSET COUNTY? CONTACT THE PROBLEM SOLVERS TODAY, THE ARTUSA LAW FIRM. PROBLEM SOLVED

Somerset Family Court Lawyer and Domestic Violence Lawyer Santo Artusa and his team at the Artusa Law Firm represent individuals who have:

  • domestic violence cases/restraining order hearings,
  • child custody disputes,
  • child support modifications,
  • New Jersey domestic violence criminal defense
  • child relocation motions/applications,
  • Newburgh hearings, order to show cause applications,
  • motions for reconsideration,  or initial applications, parenting time modifications,
  • divorces, annulments and other family court related mattersThe Superior Court-Family Part of Somerset County located in Somerville, New Jersey is one of the family courts the Artusa Law Firm represents individuals with family law issues. Whether you live in Somerset, Bridgewater, Somerville, lived in Somerset County at one point and have been served with family court motion papers or family court application papers seeking certain relief, we can help you. Many of our clients no longer live in Somerset but one of the parties in the family law case or divorce case still do, rendering Somerset County, New Jersey the proper venue for the case. Our team can help you today. To view all of the legal services the Artusa Law Firm provides, visit our page-Artusa Law Services.
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SOMERSET COUNTY FAMILY LAW ATTORNEYS

When you received family court motion papers or divorce papers, you only have a certain amount of time to respond in writing or risk a default against you. Once a default is granted, it may be hard to lift that default depending on the reason you defaulted, do not rely on that, hire an attorney and fight your case. The simple filing of a motion does not grant the relief someone seeks automatically that is why it is very important to respond in writing with what you may want and to oppose the relief sought if you do not agree. The Somerset County Family Court hears a variety of specific cases such as the request to have a child relocate out of the State of New Jersey, requests for college contribution hearings, requests for child support and alimony modifications, healthcare reimbursements, traveling outside of the United States with children and other relief. Either way, if it is a family law issue, contact the Artusa Law Firm today on 201-706-7910.

In Somerset County, the Judges that hear family law related cases are: Presiding Judge Hany A. Mawla, Hon. Anthony F. Picheca, Hon. Peter J. Tober, Hon. Robert G. Wilson. All of the family court and divorce courts in Somerset County are located on the 3rd floor. For more information about the Judges and staff, click here: http://www.judiciary.state.nj.us/somerset/Judges_and_Staff.pdf

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